I think my son has a secret girlfriend. What should I do?

by on January 12, 2011

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1 International Socialite 01.12.11 at 11:05 pm

Or he could just be hiding that he’s gay… Try talking to him. talking. Not yelling.

2 luvnhatelife 01.12.11 at 11:56 pm

Talk to him about safe sex. That is all you can do. You can’t stop him. The more you try to stop him, the more he will do what he wants. It’s his life. Soon he will be a legal adult, then you will have no say what so ever about what he does in his life. It’s all his responsibility.

3 deezNutz 01.13.11 at 12:33 am

“He obviously has a girlfriend that he has hiding from me that brought that magazine into my home”

really? is that what you tell yourself? your son is gay!
no biggie just support him the same way you would if he was straight

4 matt k 01.13.11 at 1:01 am

by all means i’m not trying to be mean or anything but he might be gay. maybe he sees that the church criticizes that decision and doesn’t want to go.

5 ca803 01.13.11 at 1:28 am

it might not be what you want to do but I would say have the talk with him and maybe get protection. You can always say this is just in case

6 Ana 01.13.11 at 2:23 am

Your son may be gay.. but if he is hiding that from you it’s obviously that he is afraid of your reaction so you should calm down, and put a smile on your face and have a smiley conversation. lol

and your theory about him hiding his girlfriend’s magazine is outrageous xD sorry

7 Kasey J 01.13.11 at 2:34 am

Your son is either gay or bi-sexual.
He might have a boyfriend?

Being gay or bi-sexual is very normal. If you are very religious, or just do not approve of homosexuals, he is most likely hiding his sexuality from you.
I would confront him, but accept him incase he does tell you that he is attracted to men.
There is nothing wrong with that, and I hope you accept him for who he is!

8 Redrose . 01.13.11 at 3:14 am

Don’t you mean boyfriend as you can clearly see ma’am your son is GAY

9 Ambrielle Vyiara Mercado<3 01.13.11 at 4:13 am

STAY OUT OF IT! hes 17. he screws up, he knows the trouble he’ll get in. At this age ou have to trust you raised him well and if it gets out of hand he’ll come to you.

10 edlynswan 01.20.11 at 6:29 am

Hey2 u2 I don’t like ur girlfriend!no way it’s not a secret… I think we should together now… And that’s what everyone talking about! :p

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