Q&A: Would you be okay if your fiance sends cards to his ex-girlfriend?

by on January 16, 2011

{ 8 comments… read them below or add one }

1 Lyar 01.16.11 at 10:05 am

He may still feel a connection to her after being together for so long, and obviously having a strong bond. So it’s not unlikely that they still think of each other as friends.

Personally it wouldn’t bother me as long as my partner let me sign the card as well… As a reminder that it was from the both of us… as is in we’re a couple.

2 Elizabeth 01.16.11 at 10:59 am

i would be mad as a hornet. that would only mean that he is holding on to the past and hasn’t gotten over her and is clearly still in love with her and is not really ready to marry me. i wouldn’t marry him until i knew that his heart was completely mine and i would be a tad bit insecure that if she walked through the door any minute he would just up and leave with her and then i would feel like an idiot for even loving such a a**…

3 Been there, don't want to go back 01.16.11 at 11:22 am

Nope, especially if it was him who was deeply in love and her who dumped him and it’s been two years already.

I would want to know he was over her before I married him.

4 LEYKIS 101 01.16.11 at 11:25 am

I refuse to be second in any ones life!!! A person like that would dump you in a minute to be with their EX!!

5 LUVVEDONE 01.16.11 at 11:30 am

I WOULD TELL HIM IF HE WANTS TO SEND HIS X CARDS AND BS THAT WE ARE OVER AND TO HIT ME UP WHEN HE GETS OVER HIS X AND MAYBE ILL GET BACK WITH HIM…AND ITS BEEN 2 YEARS? AND HE STILL AINT OVER HER! YEA I WOULD LEAVE UNTIL HE CAN LOVE ME LIKE I NEEDED TO BE LOVED…AND WHEN HE NO LONGER IS THINKIN ABOUT HIS X…

6 Genesis 01.16.11 at 12:09 pm

hell no you better tell him whats up…obviously something is going on thats not right my dad always told me DONT DO THINGS THAT ARE RIGHT BUT LOOK WRONG AND DONT DO THINGS THAT LOOK RIGHT BUT ARE WRONG

7 dp 01.16.11 at 1:06 pm

No, to me it is not ok. Let the past, be the past.

8 Rose 01.16.11 at 2:02 pm

Definitely not thats not okay…and tell him its not, remind him that she dumped him and that if truly love you and wants a new better life with you he needs to stop this sending card thing before he’s heart broken again. Tell him to recognize what he has in front of him and stop living in the past because his new life with you will be starting soon and that’s what he should be looking forward for!!

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